Pregnancy: Weight + Food


Due to the nausea that kicked in exactly at the beginning of week 6 of my pregnancy, as well as treatment prior to getting pregnant, by the end of the first trimester, I’d lost almost 10lbs. I saw this as a buffer for that 25-30/35lb weight gain that was considered healthy for my size. My eating was sketchy up until week 14/15 of pregnancy.

Smoothies were the one thing that would stay down, was easy and quick to make but I HAD to have greek yogurt in it. Greek yogurt was my source of protein and if I had anything to eat in the first trimester without protein, I’d instantly get dizzy, lightheaded or even more nauseas than I was before. I’d also gone off vegetables from day 1. Most of my meals consisted of a palmful of a carb and an equal or more portion of meat. I needed lots of protein to feel good. I’m 2 days shy of 31 weeks and I still require protein shortly after eating a carb but I don’t need it immediately with a carb.

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This morning’s fruit. I stole the watermelon from my husband that’s why there’s so little and I hate bananas chopped. Random Fact: I don’t like my food touching. I will separate it if it is.

Since I transferred to my OB around week 11, I’ve only put on 23lbs. At first weight gain was very slow or wasn’t present but I managed to put on 9lbs between Thanksgiving and the first week of January. While home, my breakfast is either a smoothie, or some kind of egg meal. My favorite has become one hardboiled egg, bathed in salt with a slice of buttered toast. I was eating two eggs and two slices of bread before but I realized that I felt sick if I ate all within 15 minutes so I decided to cut back to one each. I usually take my prenatal vitamins right after. Now that I’m getting further along, and wanting more to eat, I try to have my juice, fruit and breakfast but spaced out with at least half hour in between each.

From our stay in London in December, I’ve been trying to have a glass of orange juice (mixed with water to reduce acidity) every morning before I start my meals. I didn’t want to be taking extra vitamins all the time on top of my prenatal vitamins, and people over there do not cover their faces when they cough or sneeze, so I was not looking to have a cold on vacation. It’s amazing that throughout this pregnancy, I’ve only had pregnancy rhinitis and not a cold. Even though, with a cold, at least I’d know when it would be over. I actually crave fruit sometimes but I can’t have too much fruit because it sends the little one into overdrive, not fun for me, so I follow up by drinking water to ease it the sugar rush.

I was always a snacker, however, not know what you want to snack on could decrease that tendency. My cupboard would become full of one-off cravings and some of those cravings even left me feeling sick after. Frosted Flakes gave me a terrible headache and Lucky Charms made me feel a bit nauseas. But you better believe I’d sent my husband to the supermarket for them at least once to fulfill that craving. Speaking of cravings, I don’t think I’ve had a consistent one. Most of the time when I crave something, I eat it once or twice and move on. I hope this doesn’t have much to say for the little one.

Oh btw, did I say we’re having a boy!? Yes, he’s quite the little rebel already so I can’t wait to see his personality outside of the womb. You can check my other blog here to see my other two pregnancy related posts as I haven’t been posting that often.

My doctor expects me to gain another 10lbs which would put me just under the 35lb healthy weight gain max, but I think I’ll make the 35lbs now that I’m on modified bed rest. I also thought I’d be eating a lot more not running around doing stuff but I’m drinking more water than anything. A word to all you mothers: drinking water, as annoying as the bathroom stops make it, actually helps decrease any cramping you may be feeling. I had one day where I felt awful and I realized it was the one day I didn’t have a water bottle at my side. Even at home I fill one to make sure I’m drinking constantly and staying hydrated. You don’t have to be drinking water but staying hydrated is definitely very important. I wanted to purchase Depends at one point and figure out how to get stylish maternity diapers on the market, but I kind of like having to force myself from one spot all the time to keep circulation going.

I’m also not supposed to be cooking but let’s face it, you don’t tell a pregnant woman in her third trimester, she can’t cook especially if she’s not used to eating a lot of takeout. My husband works and I can’t expect him to drop everything and bring me meals when I want and I won’t always want a sandwich or fruit to snack on. Yesterday morning, I made a pot of Squash soup and put the majority of it in the freezer and later in the evening I made a pork roast with potatoes. Both meals required less than half an hour prep so I wasn’t on my feet for very long and I also managed to have two sets of food that last past one day.

I’m really hoping any extra weight slides off quickly after I’ve given birth. I’m very determined to not let it linger, and my trainer won’t have any of that either. I want to feel energized and ready for a little boy full of energy. I feel so blessed to be surrounded by such motivation. My husband is a playful teaser as well so I know he will also be a push to get back in shape. I’ve basically got 9 weeks left, I’m still getting ready for the little one and I’m trying to stay healthy while on bed rest. Here’s a to a safe delivery and not losing my way in the fridge closer to the end :).

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Thinking of Spring


I know I’ve been absent for a while but it was all for a good reason. I won’t even give small talk I’ll just jump into it.

Over the last few years, what has proven to be a “mistake” for many, “surprise” for others or just a quick blessing has turned out to be something that brought a few years of worry and lots of concern for my husband and I. But after taking some major steps, testing my faith in God and people, I’m happy to say we’re expecting a little one in March.

Over the last couple of months, once travel was over, we had to move apartments and then a slew of house guests for over 6 weeks back to back (in-laws, friends and finally my parents) all while I had to deal with a few complications from my treatment plus my share of nausea, hence why I’ve been so absent. I hope to get back into writing soon again. I have been documenting our journey and I plan to publish a book detailing this roller-coaster ride, so don’t expect many details from me on it.

To finish off this brief post, I’d just like to offer some advice. Whenever you come across a couple that you are aware wants kids and you realize they aren’t having them as soon as you expected, it’s best to be silent on the topic. You do not know what they’re going through and you do not know how tough it may be for them at the moment. Leave out the baby talk. Infertility is one of the hardest things for people to discuss and you may not be one of those close friends that they feel comfortable disclosing this touchy information to. And even if you are, it’s something that they need to do on their own time not yours. There were so many moments that I wanted to scream at people for asking but I kept it together as best as possible, and not everyone is able to do that. Also, never give up. With each defeat, I had a cry (never bottle up those emotions), brushed off my shoulders and asked what’s next.

I just have to say that I wouldn’t have gotten through any of this without my amazing husband. He’s been at every appointment, with the exception of one, and holding my hand at every step of the way, being the pillar I so desperately needed. Our bond is stronger than it ever was. I can see how this can tear couples apart but thankfully we only grew closer together.

I’m not sure that I’ll turn this into a mommy blog, maybe if I want to vent, but I’ll try to keep up my travel stories (a baby isn’t stopping us!) and recipes.

Until next time!

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It’s also our 5th wedding anniversary today and we definitely have a tighter bond than we did 5 years ago :).

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Luling City Market


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I *finally* got to taste some Texan BBQ last night! We went to Luling City Market, which was less than 10 minutes from my hotel. I arrived before my husband did with his workmates, and was a bit surprised to find this ranch style looking place. I didn’t know what to expect but it was cozy and the people were very friendly.

I had beans, potato salad (not the best), pork ribs and they give you two slices of the softest white bread I’ve ever had. So light, and it just dissolved in your mouth. I tore off a piece and put a little of the pork and beans on top and ate my food like that half way through. I drowned it with a Heineken :).

They smoke the meat in a little alley outside of the building so the whole place doesn’t stink of the smoke.

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Brisket on the left, pork on the right.

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Behind that Zagat sticker is where they smoke the meat outside.

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Saw this little fella chillin before I went in and he was still waiting when we came out. So cute!

We have the closing party for attendees at the Minute Maid park tonight so we’ll see how that goes. Texas is ok so far, and it hasn’t been unbearably hot. So I’d say it’s been an ok trip :).

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