‘Ode’ to My Mother


Growing up in the Caribbean, I only drank tea when my stomach was upset, if I had cramps or it was “cold”. Drinking something hot or even eating soup was not one of my favourite things to consume as I hated the feeling of “overheating”. On the contrary, my very british mother would have a cup of tea morning, noon and night – regardless of the weather – and I just could not understand why or even how she got this done. Now that I’m living in a more temperate climate, I have taken on my mother’s habit – drinking tea morning, noon and night.

At first, I was hooked on mochas. Even though caffeine takes a while to kick in for me, I’d wait patiently for it. Then I switched to white chocolate mochas, a little sweeter and less coffee-ish (I’m not a true coffee drinker). I’d normally drink one a day, some days it was two. Then I made a huge switch during my self imposed diet change. I started to drink peppermint tea. I realised maybe all of this milk (I drank low fat milk even though I was lactose intolerant – stubborn me) isn’t too good for me. So I began drinking more peppermint tea. I used to have 2 teaspoons of sugar now I’m down to 3/4 to 1  teaspoon (depending on the size of he mug). I also started drinking Moroccan Mint Green Tea by Stash. I’d alternate drinking these two so that I didn’t get bored of the taste. It also led to me drinking less mochas and spending less money at Starbucks. I’d still drink the mochas but only if I was out and needed to get really warm as tea doesn’t keep you warm as long.

Today I’m totally off of mochas. I had one the other day just to give it a try again but I didn’t care for it as much. My new love is a “short soy chai” latte. Yea I switched to soy milk (not as harsh for me, still a bother sometimes) and way less caffeine, very minimal actually. I’d most likely start my day with one and by the end I’ll have at least two cups of tea (peppermint/mint green tea). This only happens when it’s cold! As it gets warm I’m done with the hot drinks… but this is the Pacific NW, so I’d say I’m done for 1.5 months of the year hahaha!

Well besides the tea drinking, I cook soup more often. My soup consists of potatoes, sweet potatoes, yellow split peas, barley, carrots, chicken (and either beef, lamb or pork) and some “bajan dumplings”. This huge pot normally lasts two days and about 2 servings per day for my husband and I. I was going to do a pot today but then I realised that I needed a few things that I didn’t have so it will be done later this week after I go to the supermarket. I’ll be sure to post a pic of the pot when I do it.

Until then, stay warm and fuzzy :).

“Fall” On me


I know I’ve been absent for a while and I had to deal with some stuff so I had to put blogging on hold. Plus, I don’t want to adopt the attitude of writing just for the sake of it if I’m not feeling somewhat 100%. I’ve been at 65% this week and I was just waiting to get a little higher. The sun made an appearance today and that has helped somewhat as we have been truly been experiencing Fall with all it’s rain and chill glory. As I type, I’m in socks, jeans, a thermal tee and a nice thick robe over that to make sure I feel warm and cozy. I HATE to feel cold – I am from the Caribbean, enough said.

Even though I haven’t been able to workout this week, I had to get out of the house so I’d spent my time looking for a few fall/winter must-haves that I realized were necessary after I switched up my closet. I finally got a pair of casual wedge booties. That was a very hard task as my ankles are quite small and I HATE looking like I have the boniest ankles and they’re swimming in my boots – because other people do it and are fine with it doesn’t mean I have to as well. I was searching since the end of August.  I don’t like wearing my mid calf flats all the time and after all I’m still trying to build the average Fall/Winter must haves since I’m still relatively new to this whole thing.

I was also looking for a short coat as I only have one to my mid thigh and 3 pleather jackets (I ain’t foolin’ myself or anyone else and they don’t keep me that warm when it gets colder anyway). So I decided to just get something that I can wear when I don’t need all of the coverage my other coat gives me. And my petite-ish frame makes this another “fun” task as arms can be pretty long or I can’t find my size in the one coat I love. I’ve also been trying to stock up on a few more sweaters as I just wanted a few to fit into the little change my wardrobe has made fashion wise. I’ll probably buy them periodically throughout winter but for now I think I’m pretty satisfied with what I have. It probably sounds like I’ve been doing quite a bit of shopping and I won’t lie, I kinda have, but it’s rather frustrating when you have to spend so much time looking for things when you don’t fit the average size – it has been bittersweet.

Gym is next week  and would you believe I missed it? I really wanted to get in there but that isn’t the best idea right now. I think I’ll just dive into it again next week but hopefully over the weekend I’ll be able to just sneak in for a minute or two and feel refreshed.

In light of the passing of Steve Jobs and my reflective nature these last few days/weeks, I’ll like to end with this quote.

You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. – Steve Jobs